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This is for everyone who has gotten their heart broken. For everyone who has been dumped. It doesn’t matter if you are straight, gay, lesbian, trans, bi, or whatever! So here it goes, and I hope this helps. It’s time to EMPOWER yourselves! :D

Straight men: Forget about her and her indecisions. You are a gentleman with good qualities. She will never appreciate someone like you, so why bother? Don’t think it’s your fault. She couldn’t handle all the good things you had to provide for her. She’d rather drown in her emotions or go out there being a slut. You deserve better, and you will find someone better!

Straight girls: Boys are stupid. Sounds cliche, but it’s true. If he cheated, don’t be angry. Let it go. It may hurt a lot, but someone like that was never worth it. Why compromise and do something with a stranger when they were “supposed” to be happy with you? That says a lot. BE STRONG. Women are stronger than men. I don’t care what anyone says. Why? Because they have been through so much worse. So stand up for yourself. LOOK in the mirror and see the beautiful woman that you are. Strong, capable, independent, admirable, amazing, and genuine. 
And remember that the Katy Perry lyrics are true about boys: “You change your mind like a girl changes clothes.” But there ARE gentlemen out there, BELIEVE ME! And one day they will be lucky to have a girl like you!

Gay boys: Where do I even begin? Gay boys are immature. Find yourself a gay MAN. Someone who has SELF RESPECT and doesn’t go around sleeping with other men. Those people are pathetic and if they don’t learn from their mistakes, will become lonely sluts who confuse love for sex. We all make mistakes, but some of us make mistakes without realizing it. If he left you because he said he wasn’t ready, then he couldn’t handle all the amazingness you had to offer. If he cheated on you, FORGET about him. He will get what is coming to him. Karma exists. Believe me. I have seen people who have crossed me get what they deserve. Best part? I didn’t have to do anything.
A good gentleman who values himself and others will come to you. Just remember: DO NOT get catty. Do not stoop down to the dirty level. Carry yourself with DIGNITY and RESPECT. The right man will come to you when you aren’t looking. Life has a funny way of introducing people to us. BE STRONG! And don’t cope by being a slut yourself, it will make it worse.

Lesbian girls: I feel as though there isn’t as much drama in this department, but what do I know? Just remember that women are more nurturing than men. The right lady will be hard to find, but once you find her, she’ll be worth it. Don’t go for someone who gets into fights at the club. Find a woman with charm. I know they are out there. I have met them! They are kind and beautiful. Don’t get upset if you don’t find them at first…you will! And never settle for ordinary. But remember: LOVE yourself first!

Bi boys and girls: See above.

Trans boys and girls: (a combination of all of the above) I know this world is harsh on trans people, but I know for a FACT that transexuals are one of the most kind and loving people in the world. I have also met a few of them. They have a special aura around them. They are easy to like and very lovable. Yes, it might be hard to find, but is it worth it? Yes! Just remember that if you have been dumped or heart broken, then it just wasn’t meant to be. No matter how compatible you thought it was! (well, this goes for everyone really) But the point is: Being transgendered is hard enough. Some people accept it, and some don’t. If you find yourself someone of the sex you are attracted to, and you can see that they are good people, cherish them. If you are M>F, remember that there are compassionate guys out there who just want to be loved and love someone. They will not judge you. They will be hard to find, but once you find them…use your good sense of judgment. They might be the one. If you are F>M, women are by nature more understanding and tolerant than males. When you find the right woman, you will know it. She will cherish you and accept you no matter what. 
And remember, all you beautiful trans people out there: IF you come out to them later on in the relationship and they don’t accept you, it’s their loss. It’s better to do it before. Why? Because at least you know well in advance.

So the lesson for everyone is: LOVE YOURSELF. Do not settle for anything less. If you have been heart broken, the person just couldn’t handle it and didn’t appreciate you for WHO YOU ARE. There ARE people out there who will, and those are the ones who are worth it. Stop worrying and stop wasting time obsessing over the person that broke your heart. That’s like obsessing over someone who pushed you off the bike which resulted in a broken bone. Why bother? Put it past you. There ARE people out there who are worth it. Don’t WASTE your tears on people who aren’t. Trust me, I’ve been there. It’s ugly. You don’t want to fall into the same trap.

Look in the mirror and LOVE yourself. You are worth it. And he/she do not deserve you. They made a grave mistake. And they will NEVER EVER find someone as amazing as you. So let them learn from it, and if they ever come begging back, say no. EMPOWER yourself. Be strong. Stand up for what you think is RIGHT. Nobody deserves you more than YOURSELF. So in summary: FUCK ‘EM! They didn’t care, so why should you? Move on and find yourself someone better. They will make you forget all about the person that broke your heart. Believe me. 

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are you a troll or just ignorant? how can you make such sterotypes solely based on a person’s gender identity and sexuality? just because i’m gay means i sleep around? fuck you. (also, hey, FUCK YOUR SLUT SHAMING)